My Big Fat Geek Wedding

When I was younger, I thought a lot about what I wanted my wedding to look like. Most of my inspiration probably came from Cinderella and the various rom-coms I was very much into at the time. Since that time, I have become a self-described feminist geek with a...

SHE Works: On Silence and Listening

Three very interesting things happened this week, all at once. First, I had a doctor’s appointment for my voice (I lose it often). Second, I saw this cave man’s video about a science initiative to encourage women in science:   TL:DW:  Marie Curie is good,...

Will You Be My Mentor?

“Will you be my mentor?” Every time I hear this phrase, I can’t help but think about the children’s book, Are You My Mother? In the book, a bird who has fallen out of its nest wanders around searching for its mother. The bird asks everything it encounters, including a...
Starting Over: An Essay on Moving

Starting Over: An Essay on Moving

Folks from the St. Louis Chapter of Super Heroines, Etc. know that I recently moved from St. Louis to the Cincinnati-area. I’m one of those people who moved for love and have no regrets, even though I miss St. Louis and my community there. I was inspired to write this...
On Gender-Swap & Crossplay

On Gender-Swap & Crossplay

Convention season is coming, and right now many cosplayers are elbows deep in bolts of material and the air around them is thick and warm with the smell of soldered metal and melting plastic. Convention season is coming, and the cosplayers will be ready. In the world...
Let’s Talk About Rey & Jessica Jones

Let’s Talk About Rey & Jessica Jones

Stop what you’re doing because if you haven’t watched the Netflix series Jessica Jones or Star Wars: The Force Awakens, I am about to ruin both for you. So hard. I like to think of myself as a generally decent person, so I don’t want to be the...